Forced orgasm is a BDSM practice that involves stimulating a person to the point of climax against their will or despite their resistance. In forced orgasm play, the dominant partner takes control of the submissive partner's sexual response and forces them to orgasm through various means, such as manual stimulation, oral sex, sex toys, or other methods. This can create intense sensations and feelings of vulnerability, power dynamics, and loss of control for the submissive partner.
Forced orgasm play may involve edging techniques, where the dominant partner repeatedly brings the submissive to the brink of orgasm and then stops stimulation before allowing release, intensifying the sensations and building up sexual tension. The dominant partner may also use restraints, bondage, or psychological control to restrict the submissive's movement or prevent them from resisting the orgasmic stimulation.
Consent, communication, and trust are crucial in forced orgasm play to ensure that all participants feel safe, respected, and in control. Clear negotiation of boundaries, safe words or signals, and aftercare protocols are important to establish and maintain a consensual and enjoyable experience for everyone involved. Participants should have open communication about their desires, limits, and comfort levels to ensure a mutually satisfying and fulfilling dynamic.
Aftercare, which involves providing emotional support, reassurance, and debriefing after the scene, can be particularly important in forced orgasm play to help participants transition out of the intense arousal states and maintain a sense of connection and care. When done consensually, responsibly, and with an understanding of boundaries and communication, forced orgasm play can be a stimulating and intense form of sexual play for those interested in exploring power dynamics, control, and heightened sensations in their BDSM or kink relationships.