Orgasm control, also known as orgasm denial or edging, is a form of BDSM play in which one partner exercises control over the other partner's ability to reach orgasm. This can involve delaying, restricting, or intensifying the orgasmic experience through various techniques, such as edging (bringing the individual to the brink of orgasm and then stopping stimulation), orgasm denial (preventing the individual from climaxing), or forced orgasms (overstimulating the individual to induce orgasm).

Orgasm control can be used to explore power dynamics, dominance and submission, sexual control, and sensory play within a consensual and negotiated dynamic. The dominant partner may dictate when, how, and if the submissive partner is allowed to orgasm, creating a sense of anticipation, arousal, and surrender. Orgasm control can also be a form of erotic teasing, discipline, or punishment within a BDSM context, enhancing the intensity and intimacy of the sexual experience.

Consent, communication, and trust are essential in orgasm control play to ensure that all participants feel safe, respected, and comfortable with the dynamics of the scene. Clear negotiation of boundaries, safe words or signals, and aftercare protocols is important to establish and maintain a consensual and enjoyable experience for all involved. Participants should have open communication about their desires, limits, and preferences to ensure a mutually satisfying and fulfilling dynamic.

Aftercare, which involves providing emotional support, reassurance, and debriefing after the scene, can be particularly important in orgasm control play to help participants transition out of the intense arousal states and maintain a sense of connection and care. When done consensually, responsibly, and with an understanding of boundaries and communication, orgasm control can be an exciting and intimate form of play for those who enjoy exploring power dynamics, control, and intensity in their sexual or BDSM relationships.